 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Dear Carolyn: My husband quit his job two years ago to start a consulting practice. I have continued to work full time and my salary pays most, but not all, of our bills. We both agree his income so far has been insufficient to support our needs, and he tells me he is pursing other employment opportunities in addition to consulting work. Except I don't think he is: He's had no interviews, and I don't see him networking as he usually does when looking for work. I'm tired of being constantly on the financial edge. When I bring this up, he agrees. But then nothing changes. How can I tell the difference between a man who is happy not working so much, and a man who is just down on his luck? — Anonymous | 
