(Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Hi, Carolyn: My husband and I have agreed we are in a "business relationship" — there is no emotional or physical intimacy. I don't love him but we get along well enough. I am very fearful of financial instability if I leave. Our jobs are "equal," so there won't be any child support or spousal support. We have twin 8-year-olds. I'm 51 and postmenopause — which took me for a horrible mental ride I've not really come back from. How does one figure out the right answer? I know it is fear that holds me here, but the fear is real in that I am struggling a lot with brain fog, mental exhaustion — things that I worry put my job at risk. And I work in a field where re-employment isn't easy. I'd love your thoughts. — Stay or Go? |