 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Hello Carolyn: I spent the past six months enjoying a "covid surprise," a new man in my life after many years single. He's a smart, funny, kind man and in many ways we are a great match. We have fun, share interests and are both independent as well. I have a full life of work, activism and friends. But I want true love. He's been clear he's not in love with me, and even after a recent wonderful trip together, he said he wants to be alone a lot more and can't really love anyone. I fell hard for him, and knowing there is not a loving connection from him makes it a very unbalanced relationship. I've tried going all in and living in the now. We have lots of fun. But I am often wondering when/if we'll see each other and knowing I'm more into it than he is is taking a toll. No sweet pillow talk, no shared emotional exchanges. Is this a situation where I should go in all whatever, all now? Or do I read the (very clear) tea leaves and break up? It makes me sad he can't love me and doesn't want to. I'm not sure I'll ever find such a good match again. — Sad | 
