 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Dear Carolyn: My wedding is being covid-rescheduled from 2020 to 2022. One of my closest friends of the past 15 years said an annual music festival in another state may also be rescheduled for the same dates and she normally goes with other friends of hers. She has said she'll be at the wedding only if the dates don't conflict. It isn't my first wedding, but I surely plan on it being the last. Although there's a small chance the dates won't overlap, my feelings are very hurt that such a close friend would prioritize a concert just because she goes every year. No tickets have been purchased and the other girls could go without her. I'm trying not to take it personally and realize she's an adult who can do what she pleases, but I'm not sure how to speak with her about it or if I even should. Let it go and enjoy being surrounded by the people who do want to be there for us? Or give her the old, "I'm not mad, I'm just really disappointed"? I don't want friction between us, but it feels a little disingenuous to pretend it's not a big deal. — Not-Bridezilla | 
