 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Carolyn Hax is away. The following first appeared July 29, 2007. Dear Carolyn: I just had our second child; our first is a boy, second a girl. My husband doesn't seem to like our girl as much. He was pretty involved with our son but makes comments like, "I don't know how I'm going to relate to a girl," and, "I just can't calm her down the way you can." He's so into our son, and they play baseball and do all sorts of things my husband enjoys. He's even made fun of a few dolls and girly things she's received, which I think is awful — as she grows up I don't want her embarrassed to be a girl. We didn't find out the gender before she was born, but why should there be any sticker shock? When I bring it up he tells me I'm being silly, which I also don't care for. — I Can't Believe I'm Asking This | 
