 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Hi, Carolyn: I have been dating a very sweet man for a little over a year. He is kind, a good listener and accepts me for who I am, but it has always felt like there is something missing. I kept deciding to wait and see if greater intimacy would blossom. It hasn't. I know love is an action and a choice, and I do care about him a great deal, but I just don't feel like I love him. He is starting to piece together my lack of interest. Should I be grateful to have a kind and caring person I can spend time with, or set sail on my own? — Lackluster Love | 
