 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from online discussions. Dear Carolyn: My husband may be about to lose his job. I'm feeling nauseated, panicked and overwhelmed to even think about our income slashed in half. I want to be as supportive as possible, and I know how I react to his news could influence the quality of our marriage long after this job insecurity passes. However, I'm frustrated that I seem more panicked about this than he does! I know I express concern differently and more visibly than he usually does. How do I calmly encourage, display gracious empathy and weather this stress out? — Panicked | 
