 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: My partner of four years isn't satisfied with their career or our marriage, and is taking a job across the country that feels too good to pass up. I will be left with an apartment lease, debt, pets to take care of. My partner explains it's the job opportunity and my actions over the past two years that led her to make this decision. My partner says I don't try anymore, that I don't prioritize them. It's true, I'm personally not doing too great and I am trying to be better, but it's not good enough at the moment. This will be a separation, I suppose, with maybe a chance of reconciliation. She wants me to get help for past trauma, says I'm emotionally devoid. I want to be with this person forever but a move like this, it's shocking to me. How can I begin to fix our marriage? — Not Doing Too Great | 
