 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: My brother and his wife love their kids, and yet everything I see suggests they hate being parents. "Rachel" complains incessantly about things that are very normal, and makes dramatic social media posts about how hard her life is as a mom. She used to post crying selfies about it, but I think a friend told her it was a bad look. She has a career she is very good at, and I think it's possible she was meant to focus on that instead. My brother is a good dad but similarly full of complaints. I cannot get the idea out of my head that I should offer to take the kids in. I sincerely believe my husband and I could make room in our brood for the kids' cousins. I am looking for a way to approach this question that doesn't alienate them forever. Or is it a completely crazy thought that I should just put away? — Anonymous | 
