 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Dear Carolyn: We divorced when our three children were in their early teens. My ex had been sleeping with a series of men and, despite a year of intensive couples counseling, she would not break off the relationships. I financially supported the ex and kids in the family homestead, bought a nearby house and parented the three children half-time. Fast-forward 25 years and the grown children with teenage kids of their own are asking why we separated. I always believed that was their mother's story to tell. As the years go by, my kids all watch their spouses' parents' relationships mature with all of the usual conflicts, baggage, joy and sharing that goes with getting old together, and their questions to me get more pointed. As we gather to discuss end-of-life issues like inheritance, possessions and real estate, the drumbeat gets stronger. Any guidance would be appreciated. — Anonymous |
