 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: My boyfriend and I got engaged recently. He told me he didn't want to spend money on a ring and I was fine with that. I'd rather save up for the wedding and honeymoon, covid-19 willing. When my grandmother died, I inherited an emerald ring from her. I've never worn it much, but now I've started wearing it on my ring finger every day. My fiance hates it and says if I want a ring "that bad," then he will buy one. I just want to wear this one. Is there anything wrong with that? This is causing so much unnecessary stress between us — one of us isn't seeing things correctly. Is it me? He's taking it as an insult and wants me to either accept a ring from him or wear the emerald on a different finger. What's going on here? — Engaged | 
