 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: I've been sharing an apartment with my stepsister, "Jenna," for the past two years, but now I'm moving away and really looking forward to being on my own. Jenna is nice but spoiled and helpless, and always looking for me to bail her out or figure things out for her. She attached herself to my friend group and is devastated if we so much as have coffee without her. Now she's talking about moving to the same city as me even though I've made it clear I don't need a roommate and my studio apartment will not have room for one. Her dad has promised to give her enough money to live on her own and my mom says there's nothing I can do about it, so I shouldn't say anything. I've already told Jenna I'll be busy with my new job and won't have much time for her, but I'm sure she'll be blowing up my phone wanting to meet up, wanting help with some issue, wanting wanting wanting. If I ignore her, she'll whine to my mom, who will message me, point out that my stepdad paid her portion of my college tuition, and say I SHOULD BE NICE and help Jenna out. Is there any way out of this? — Moving Away | 
