(Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Dear Carolyn: My boyfriend is a musician and never made a ton of money, and I carried the bulk of the financial weight because of it. It was hard, but I was willing to do it because I love him and he's a very kind man. We never argue and get along very well. Now with covid, most of his work has been canceled and he's unwilling to find something else. He's also very depressed because of it. We have since moved in with his family in a separate apartment on their property. His family is lovely, but I hate the apartment and want our own space. It's hard to plan for a future including things such as buying a home or starting a family when only one income would be used. I am torn between leaving a man I really love or staying and having financial pressure I don't want. Any advice would be appreciated. — Anonymous |