 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: We wanted one more baby, for a total of two, but found out we're having twins! O-M-freaking-G. I've spent the past two weeks, since getting the news, in a state of absolute shock and amplified first trimester symptoms, which are making it really hard for me to perform my daily basic functions (full-time job and parenting). And even though we wanted our son to have a sibling, I can't shake the feeling that we are ruining his life, if temporarily. Somewhere deep down I know I will love these babies, and that I will be able to feel excited, but it's all so … daunting and scary right now. Not to mention that I can barely get out of bed, though I absolutely have to. Any words of wisdom to help me get through the next few weeks, as the news settles in further and (hopefully!) excitement starts building? — We're Having Twins | 
